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Posted Monday, March 24, 2008, at 7:50 PM
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I'd like to break away from the usual blog article to write a personal tribute to a couple of old friends we lost this past weekend. Every time I think about old friends, I think about the old Willie Nelson, Roger Miller and Ray Price song, "Old Friends". "Lord when all my work is done, bless my life and grant me one, old friend…at least one…old friend."

Matt and I just got back tonight from saying good-bye to an old friend in Lyons, Larry Hasler. I first met Larry when I played against his Switz City teams quite a few years ago. Since that time I have seen him referee and officiate too many games to remember. He was there at volleyball games when my girls were playing and basketball when my boys were playing. I always made it a point to tell Larry of at least one call or two that I thought were questionable after the games were over, just so he knew I was there and paying attention.

While standing in line at the funeral home, Matt related stories of him and Larry playing as partners in the last couple of Big Hose Golf Tourneys. Matt said he hit three balls out of bounds on one hole and had Larry just shaking his head in disbelief. Matthew, like his old Dad, really enjoyed being around Larry.

Over the past 20 years, I was afforded the opportunity to play golf with Larry many times. Larry once taught me the famous Hasler grunt, which I made a poor attempt at imitating on one occasion and nearly separated my shoulder from the rest of my body. He was a fierce competitor at all times and you just loved to be around him. I'm not sure how many rainouts we persevered through on the club house veranda, just sipping a cold one and telling stories. It was the highlight of my day when I could get him to laugh out loud.

We will miss Larry, but we will remember him and talk of him often. If it ever warms up and dries out, I'm dedicating my first drive to Larry. I'm going to get the Hasler grunt right this time.

I received a call at work today from another friend to tell me about Ron Storm passing on Friday. Ron lived in Watseka, Illinois and was the owner of S&A Concrete. I first met Ron when we began building the first Detonation Chamber at Blue Grass Army Depot back in the mid '90s. We built and tested another one at Crane and another one that was designed to be transportable. It was a great working relationship that developed into a good friendship. Those times were interesting, challenging and fun. Ron could master a challenge and make everyone working with him have fun doing it.

Ron participated in a struggle up Hill 937 back in May of 1969, which was nicknamed by the press, the Battle of Hamburger Hill. In Samuel Zaffiri's book, Hamburger Hill, you will find mention of SP4 Ron Storm on pages 70-72. It doesn't say much in the book about Ron other than describing, in some detail, an airburst in the trees that knocked him down and then Ron getting back up and continuing up the Hill. We talked about that battle occasionally over supper, but you could tell it was something he'd rather not talk about too much. He also became a tunnel rat while in Vietnam and described those trips into those tunnels in frightening detail. If I got him going good on a story, I'd sneak one of my extra hot wings into his basket, unnoticed until it reached his mouth. I can still see his face light up when he realized what I'd done.

It has been a sad time for me today, but I'm sure glad I had the opportunity to know these two gentlemen.


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As one of Larry Haslers former players, I for one can attest to what kind of guy he was. In my junior year Larry had bought a new car, a 1964 chevy with ( and I am not quite sure of this)a 396 with more than one carb, and a straight stick tranny. One sat. nite I had worked a miracle and gotten a date with a great looking girl from eastern, I had a junk car that would not even get to eastern so I talked Larry into trading cars for the evening. Larry only ask one thing of me, I had to promise not to do any drag racing, or fast driving, well I a still not quite sure if this fits that criteria, but I must admit I took off from Hunters drive-in in a very quick pace to the bridge, I must also admit I maybe continued this about 15 times during the evening. I would have maybe even continued, but the car had a little problem, it would no longer shift into 1st or 2nd gear. A friend found a wire and tied it to something called the linkage, this did allow me to get it going(must admit taking off in 3rd was not that easy) so I took it back to Larry's house in Lyons and parked it and got in my car and headed home. My mind was not all that sharp, and I was a little nervous, but parking your coach's car in a driveway and not remembering that it has no reverse is not a smart move. Larry waited at least a week, just making me suffer, and then he finally walked up and ask if I needed my wire back. That was all that was said about the car. Larry Hasler had trouble getting coaching jobs because, he was thought of as too easy, or too nice, what a world we now live in, when being nice keeps one from getting a job. Larry as one who knew you well, thank you for all you taught me. It was not only a pleasure, but and honor to have known you.

-- Posted by not from Greene Co. on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:01 AM

Earlier on this blog I wrote of my feelings about Larry. Here is a passage from a letter written by Mark Twain

When we think of friends, and call their faces out of the shadows, and their voices out of the echoes that faint along the corridors of memory, and do it without knowing why save that we love to do it, we content ourselves that that friendship is a Reality, and not a Fancy--that it is builded upon a rock, and not upon the sands that dissolve away with the ebbing tides and carry their monuments with them.

- Letter to Mary Mason Fairbanks

-- Posted by B ball fan on Tue, Mar 25, 2008, at 2:36 PM

My condolences.

-- Posted by hopeanddust on Tue, Mar 25, 2008, at 9:42 AM

You said it very well Simmons. Larry was a special guy in many ways. He loved his sports and worked hard for the people of Greene County. We will all miss him. May he rest in peace knowing he fought the battle and won.

-- Posted by Wordmaster on Tue, Mar 25, 2008, at 6:50 AM

Ah, the Hasler grunt. When that started, usually, you were in trouble. And he would beat the tar out of you on the course.

-- Posted by corb300 on Tue, Mar 25, 2008, at 6:05 AM


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