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Pack-rat finds some real treasures
Posted Monday, February 16, 2009, at 1:59 PM
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I'm a pack-rat.

I keep stuff.

Stuff that other people might consider useless.

But I don't.

This past weekend I was sifting through letters, cards and artwork I've kept over the years.

Here's some of the treasures I found:

A Mother's Day note written by my son, Ramsey -- which was dated May 11, 2008.

He chronicled a few moments of my life that he found to be inspirational. The following is a small peak:

"Mom, you did something that no other person would do. You managed a rough rural route and continued your college education. Mom, what you did changed my life forever after that. You gave me inspiration to be like you. The day of your college graduation I was so happy. Little did I know what you had accomplished. Now I know what you did and why I would rather have you be my mom more than anyone else in the world ..."

Not bad for a 12-year-old.

And of course the 2008 Mother's Day project from my son, Jazz.

He told me I was "as sweet as candy and as beautiful as a butterfly."

I also found hand-written letters from two of my heroes.

One was written by my grandma Ferree in September 1994. It was a reply to a letter I had sent to her while I was in the nation's capital.

Grandma has since passed but her words live on. I can hear her voice every time I read that treasured letter.

She wrote, "Hi Timberly. I received your letter yesterday. I was surprised I got one. I'm glad you did write me. Yes, I did have a good birthday I was 84 and I still go to church every time the church door opens. I love my Lord ..."

She was gold.

Then there's even the letter that my great-grandmother Nan wrote. Although she never sent it, I just happened upon it after she had passed on.

(Talk about communication from beyond.)

In the letter dated January 1995, Nan provided an update on several family members including cousins Tasha, Tiffany and Erek, my mom, brother Shaun and even Uncle Bill.

It was dated January 1995.

In part it reads, "Hi Sweetie, Now isn't this a big surprise? Think of you everyday and night. Hope everything is going OK ... It's the usual thing around here ... The coming and going. A belated birthday to you, hope it was nice. Thought of you and would have been super to have held you ..."

The letter was never finished. But, I know that the reference to "held you" meant give you a hug. Nan was a very affectionate person who always lathered the love on.

There's also letters from my cousins, Casey and Tammy.

And letters from my long-time friends Dale, Jada and Shireen.

There's letters from my dear, dear friends Tawyna and Deb.

There's birthday, Christmas and Mother's Day cards from my mom, dad, momkoonce, papa and there's little notes from Kade.

I even have notes from a former Postmaster boss lady who had a penchant for calling me out when I screwed up and seemed clueless when I worked my butt off.

And then there's the letters, blog comments and e-mails from readers like you.

And I'm saving those for another time and place. (Like next week's view.)

There's the good, the bad and the downright nasty ... Boy, will this stuff come in handy when I write that book.

Write on.

Timberly Ferree is a staff writer at the Greene County Daily World. She can be reached by e-mail at tferree@gcdailyworld.com or by phone at 1-800-947-4487 or (812) 847-4487.


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Are you going to post the one's that criticize you as well or just the one's that give you a pat on the back?

-- Posted by sparky70 on Mon, Feb 16, 2009, at 7:19 PM

Sparky,

I didn't feel Timberly was 'giving herself a pat on the back', but was instead writing a 'feel good' story that was a personal walk down memory lane. She didn't have to share something so private, but that she did shows the quality of her soul. There is so much negativity in the news as a general rule that it's nice to read such a positive, upbeat article.

Why would you want to read something negative that was written personally to someone else? It has no pertainance to your life and is, frankly, none of our business.

I have made a lot of mistakes in my life and been chewed out a lot by friends and family. There is a lot of personal pain involved with each conflict. I wouldn't want to publish any of that for public record. It's bad enough that it happened in the first place, but I wouldn't want to rehash it with strangers in a public forum.

After following Timberly's articles, and reading the comments, I've notice a handful of people who seem like they stalk her electronically and leave negative comments at every opportunity. Why should she even consider giving these people even more fodder for their trash talk? I certainly wouldn't.

Her articles are light, upbeat, positive and refreshing. The quality of her soul comes out in each article. She obviously cares deeply about family and in an age where so many take family for granted, she shows her appreciation in nearly every article she writes.

I think she should be commended for these qualities, not attacked for not giving negative people more fodder for their hateful comments.

Sincerely,

Queenie

-- Posted by Queenie_2008 on Tue, Feb 17, 2009, at 7:04 AM

Queenie-

I agree.

Well stated.

-- Posted by livinlinton on Tue, Feb 17, 2009, at 10:24 PM

Many writers have various styles.

Putting one's heart open on paper is what makes a good writer.... compared her to Edger Allen Poe,,,, she by far has my vote...

I think she is an amazing writter to write a piece or article so toughing from old letters..

Memories are drawn forward from the deepest corners of our mind by things like this...If one is not reminded by silly little things one keeps the memories might be lost in the deepest corners of our minds to collect cob webs never to be viewed or enjoyed again by minds eye again..

Do you recall the prom dress or tux you didn't choose? How silly it made you look. If you have a photo of it you would but you probably as I do recall the one you choose.

Get the point.

She has great articles. Who cares what she keeps if it pleases her...It show's she's human too.

-- Posted by oldoak on Mon, Feb 23, 2009, at 12:30 AM

I was recently digging for a an old bill and came across a letter written by my adopted son as a class asingment when he was in the 2nd grade (9th now)about all it said was how much he loved me and how happy he was that i adopted him. It brought tears to my eyes. I framed it. pack rats may have many hidden treasures.

-- Posted by dennisb1953 on Sun, Mar 8, 2009, at 8:13 AM


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