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Posted Monday, January 28, 2008, at 2:24 PM
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Here I am.

When I write this blog you know who I am. I am not hiding behind some anonymous name. In fact, if you don't know me it doesn't matter because I'm readily identifiable by the mug shot located somewhere near here.

Have I been publicly crucified for writing my honest opinion? Yes. Am I holding anything back because of this? No.

Now if I may direct your attention to the Web site www.gcdailyworld.com.

Our Web site allows readers to anonymously comment on stories, photos and blogs. And boy are some of our readers' comments interesting. Some are insightful while others are downright hateful.

My question is would you still be so honest with you opinions if you were readily identifiable? Why or why not? If you believe in something so strongly then why must you express it with anonymity?

I understand how you feel, I used to be afraid too. I used to dread spineless sound-offs-- in which readers were able to diss me anonymously. In my war with criticism, I've also been told I was going to hell from anonymous callers and received the nastiest of e-mails.

At first, all of this negative feedback really bothered me. At times it made me mad and defensive. It wasn't until I later realized that no matter what anyone thinks it cannot hurt me unless I let it. This is when I was able accept the criticism like a gift given to me from the unlikeliest of places.

Now I am relieved that I no longer have to hide how I feel about touchy issues. I know who I am and I don't have to pretend to be somebody else.

I am grateful for the positive as well as negative feedback. I won't lie, it's been a long, hard road to get to this point but it was well worth it.

How about you?


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I appreciate free speech.

You are right, some don't express their true thoughts out of fear of repercussion. Some don't for fear of losing business and some for reasons unknown. Unfortunately, the rules of this and thousands of blogs are to remain anonymous.

I have had comments published many times with my name and without. My opinions are made with a combination of experience and with knowledge of subject matter. I have found it beneficial to just read others comments and editorials when I do not understand the subject. Much great information comes from blogs as well as a lot of unfounded garbage. The readers know the difference.

-- Posted by Greene County Patriot on Mon, Jan 28, 2008, at 3:13 PM

I say major 'kudo's' to you Timberly (and I've meant to say it before) for having the backbone to put your name behind your opinions...and not just about random 'daily' things, but serious issues that anyone could guess will probably bring you hate mail. It takes chutzpah! (and a backbone)

I have noticed that people in this county DO seem much more fearful to express themselves publicly. But, it is also noticeable that there seems to be a huge amount of local folks, that can carry a grudge like an olympic torch (and pass it onward to others with equal zeal). Seems like once someone has made up their mind about you (and labeled you) whether or not they've met you personally- they stick to their impression, no matter how wrong it maybe. Maybe that is what makes people fearful to speak out with their name behind it? Then again, with hate mail, it is just cowardice.

In any event, many of us DO hope you will maintain the 'nerve' to speak your mind publicly on hot topics. Don't let intolerance of your view points stop you from stating them...that is afterall, what the hate mail and rude comments are meant to do; intimidate you to 'shut you up'. Let that be your fuel to continue! ;)

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Mon, Jan 28, 2008, at 8:12 PM

And two people that have left comments hide behind a fake name. I do see Greene County Patriots point but still. Stillhopeful what is your reason for using a fake name.

-- Posted by Aaron on Mon, Jan 28, 2008, at 11:41 PM

I must have missed out on the public crucifixion in an earlier blog. Sorry about that, there is really no reason for that to occur. I've enjoyed your articles and comments.

It is tough to get good conversations going on religion however, without the fanatical passions causing hurt and pain. I wouldn't take any of it personally though.

"Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction." Blaise Pascal

-- Posted by simmons on Tue, Jan 29, 2008, at 12:58 AM

Thank you for acknowledging the crucifixion. Perhaps I should have dropped out of the discussion earlier. It is hard to discern the need for "fight or flight" when being verbally assaulted but I am used to it, both in my job and in cognito(sp.?).

Have a great day and enjoy the Florida primaries.

I love the politics of America, it is kind of like blogging.

-- Posted by Greene County Patriot on Tue, Jan 29, 2008, at 5:35 AM

I could only imagine the persecution I would endure speaking out aginst the powers that be using my real name. Let alone the finacial punishment our business would incur.

-- Posted by america on Tue, Jan 29, 2008, at 11:07 AM

I never like using that analogy of being crucified. You do have freedom of speech to express your views, but the question is always, are they right. That really applies to most all things. I could believe that Jesus and the Devil are bothers. I could believe that "god" lives on planet kolob and I can believe that, if I do enough good works, I might get a chance to be a god of my own universe one day.

I can believe all these things, but the big question is, is it all true.

-- Posted by needgod.com on Tue, Jan 29, 2008, at 1:20 PM

I wont lie. I use an anonymous name becuase Greene County is a small community and many times the topics directly effect me and mine. I fear retaliation or "drama" over what essentially constitutes a difference of opinion. Many closed minded people, probably myself inculded, cannot just agree to disagree.

-- Posted by hmmph on Tue, Jan 29, 2008, at 4:19 PM

It doesn't matter whether I know you or not, this is a blog, a small town blog. Get out and visit some of the larger blogs, even if you just read. Very few people know each other on these blogs and there are some wonderful discussions. Just like here though, many narrow minded, hot-headed individuals cannot control their emotions. Not sure why people have to act like children just because they disagree with someone, but that is life and it is what it is. Get over it, there are young Americans dying out there, fighting a war to preserve your rights to freely express your opinions, so get over it and blog on like mature adults and be thankful that you can disagree.

I sure hope there aren't any young troups in Iraq and Afghanistan logged onto some computer and checking the blogs from the good old folks back in Greene County. They are the ones you ought to be worrying about, instead of complaining about whether or not you need to identify yourself on a meaningless blog.

Cheers :>) Enjoy life and your freedoms, they have been purchased at a very high price.

-- Posted by simmons on Tue, Jan 29, 2008, at 4:46 PM

I love free speech! I think a few people on here do know who I am. However, I remain annonymous as my children go to school here and all my family live and work in this town, so to save them from any backlash to my comments and opinion...I am able say want I want with a little "security." If you see me in person, I am not shy with my opinion...I am actually very outspoken, even in "real life" I have a very forward personality. There is a lot more I would love to debate on here, but I don't know if ya'll are ready for it... :) I love the blogs and quite honestly, I am glad I don't know who all the posters are, it is after all, the beauty of the Internet.

-- Posted by Renee71 on Tue, Jan 29, 2008, at 5:56 PM

oh, I wanted to add, A huge THANK YOU! to Timberly. Thanks for sparking some very interesting blogs. Keep 'em coming! We all apparently have a lot to say.

-- Posted by Renee71 on Tue, Jan 29, 2008, at 5:58 PM

The internet is the ultimate in escapism.

-- Posted by The Raven on Wed, Jan 30, 2008, at 11:03 AM

Why remain anonymous? Hmmmmm, I guess because we are given that option. Yes, people get irrate over some issues, but why not be able to express them here, ANONYMOUSLY, without getting the flack for it? Do I agree with everyone else's views, ABSOLUTELY NOT! But simply enough I don't get paid and do not wish to get paid to publicly put my name out there so someone else can bash my opinions, my grammar or my spelling....You, Ms. Ferree get paid for what you do and when you went into journalism you were most likely warned that not everyone was going to think your articles were warm and fuzzy.

The comment section was place here so that the people of our wonderful little county can say "kudos" to you, or "Boo" to you...I read the articles, if I have no opinion, I write nothing. If I agree and wish to be heard, I say so. If I read a piece of crap that obviously has no warrant behind the issue, someone didn't do their journalism homework or they wrote it simply to sell the newspaper, well I say so... anonymously....

-- Posted by Tralamala on Wed, Jan 30, 2008, at 1:44 PM

Hey Chris, I need to renegotiate my contract. :>)

-- Posted by simmons on Wed, Jan 30, 2008, at 5:46 PM

Simmons, I think you told us all your thoughts are free, so I think you're contract is satisfactory!

-- Posted by CHatton on Wed, Jan 30, 2008, at 7:14 PM

Well, it may be something worth considering that if people in general-in daily life= are afraid to turn up a a meeting and speak up, afraid to put their name on a petition, afraid to just make their thoughts known, then this maybe a major factor in why this community isn't growing and prospering. Try getting a group of people to attend a meeting to make their voices heard, even on something that is important to them.....and you'll be sitting there alone.

People say we all need to be involved to make this place better, but if getting involved may bring personal repercussions, then that may explain why we have so many unhappy people, not involved in making the place better, but not willing to speak up and give their views.

I've seen this play out a thousand times since I moved here. Someone asked me recently what I'd learned after living here 10 years, I said, "what I've learned is to keep your head down, keep your mouth shut, go with the flow and don't rock the boat. AT least, if you want to 'get along". But those are the things that NEED to happen for a community to prosper and grow. The boat needs rocked and the 'rocker' not 'shunned' for it.

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Wed, Jan 30, 2008, at 10:27 PM

I guess I never knew that there were so many unhappy people in Greene County. What does this place need to be better? Sure seems like paradise to me, except for this weather.

-- Posted by simmons on Thu, Jan 31, 2008, at 4:15 AM

This is a great place to live and raise a family. I have lived many places but we chose to live in Greene county for many reasons.

First, the cost of living is very low.

Second, the people are friendly and accomodating.

Third, most people here have a good work ethic.

Fourth, the church to tavern ratio is extremely high(especially compared to Dubois County). This is a ranking that generally tells one about the general attitude of the population towards God and the vices.

Fifth, people are very generous and willing to help others, especially in times that are tough.

Sixth, we love the scenery.

Seventh, we don't have the stresses inherent to the cities(population, traffic, etc.)

There are many more reasons why one should live here. Being anonymous in this blog is really not that big of a deal. I would hate to think that people can not be themselves either anonymously or publicly. Usually, people who are negative are pessimistic due to choice. If that is you, then try waking up tomorrow looking forward to the day and people you will encounter.

Simmons, I thought you liked the winters as it gives your torso a break from swinging the golf clubs. <:-)

-- Posted by Greene County Patriot on Thu, Jan 31, 2008, at 7:29 AM

Simmons- you thought this place was paradise? I've been thinking about your comment for some time. This is what I came up with;

If one can sufficiently construct a personal bubble to live within, with awareness of only you, your friends, your family and what affects them, you could surely be living in paradise.

If you would like to see the county (outside your personal bubble) prosper and grow and get better, you first have to assess what some of the problems are ACKNOWLEGE they are indeed problems and get involved to help alleviate them.

Our county has one of the very highest child abuse/neglect rates of anywhere in the state. They say 'the children are our future".....that could spell trouble.

We have high unemployment/ lack of companies offering good jobs/ a catch 22 in luring companies /businesses back into the area.

And, not least of which is a well rooted, absolute resistance to change...for good or bad. No change. I've heard that said a town hall meeting once. A eager presenter was explaining how this town could initiate growth and bring economy to the area and improve a million other aspects of the town, etc. Sounded Great! Sounded the perfect plan this town needed badly!!! A man stood up, and I'll never forget this as long as I live, he said, "there are plenty of us who don't want no change. We don't want no traffic, we don't want no tax changes,we don't want new people moving into our neighborhoods, people we don't know.....we want to stay as we are.

*** Here is the problem it's a universal law- when you stop growing, you start dying.

That is reality. THat is a proven fact.

The good old boy system in this county is beyond ridiculous. People are appointed to boards simply to collect their fee for sitting on a board, with no real intention of helping the cause . People fight against change from every level. And they do not take kindly to people who come in trying to push through changes and that is where making your opinion known with your name attached comes back to bite you in most cases.

We see people saying, "I want just what we have, I want limited involvement from the government, I want to do what I want without answering to anyone. I oppose zoning, even thought it will help us gain business and grow and I don't want anyone telling me how I have to treat my kids, how my yard and house has to look and how I treat my animals."

When I saw there was even a debate about WHERE to put the farmers market, I was dumbfounded! What?? Make a debate out of this??? Clearly it belongs in a high visiblity spot in the park so traffic just passing through our fair city, will see the bright colors and stop. From there they can be directed to a great place to eat down the road, etc. This shouldn't even be an issue worth arguing over. It's like real estate, the three rules...LOCATION LOCATION LOCATION!!

It's this throwback to 'individual rights trumping the greater rights of the many' that is sinking us.

If you can live here, enjoy the cheap cost of living, low crime rate, and not think about the children who suffer horribly , the animals that are regularly starved to death, the people on the verge of homelessness, the incessant meth labs killing our residents slowly and clogging our jails....all the wasted life out there drifiting aimleslly......then you can probably find a way to call this paradise.

As for generous people who help each other...did you read the United Way here can't even fund itself and is now defunct??? I'm not being pessimistic , I''m being realistic because you can't fix a problem, until you acknowledge it. Pretending the problems don't exist isn't the answer. Wearing blinders isn't the answer. Getting involved, demanding change and doing it with the courage of using your own name is what gets the attention of those in charge.

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Thu, Jan 31, 2008, at 10:38 PM

"not think about the children who suffer horribly, the animals that are regularly starved to death, ...."

We evidently have some serious problems, but I am not aware of them. If these problems exist then they need to be brought to the attention of local law enforcement. I'm getting old and my children have been raised and are, for the most part, on their own, so I don't have a lot of involvement with kids anymore. Has it deteriorated that much since my kids were in school? Are there cases of child abuse in this county? What do you mean by suffering horribly? Where are these animals that are starving to death? I would be more than willing to do something about this, if I witnessed any of this.

I'm not "pretending the problems don't exist", I just really didn't know that they do exist. What do you mean by "on the verge of homelessness"? Do you know people in this situation?

If you would meet me and take me to these children being treated horribly, I will contact the County Prosecutor and make sure that action is taken. Why haven't you done this? Child abuse is a criminal act and I think that it is just as criminal to observe this and do nothing about it.

-- Posted by simmons on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 5:34 AM

Stillhopeful, you are misled on so many levels.

First, Our Constitution guarantees individual rights. It is the basis of freedom, not socialism (the rights of many) that makes Greene County and America great.

Second, the "good old boy" group you are speaking of includes "Toys for Tots", The Rotary Club, The Civitan, The Greene County Foundation and even the "4H". These people work together to help the less fortunate and don't sit around and complain about how bad our county is but do something about it. The United Way won't be missed at all and I welcome their departure as a promoter of abortion and duping hard working people to donate through payroll deduction.

Please give exact examples of the abuses and I will be glad to confront and pursue justice. I have done it before and would do it again.

Perhaps if you would like to speak at a Rotary meeting, with facts amd not pure pessimism, they would love to hear your charges against the law breakers. I guarantee, if your allegations are true, then the Rotary would act on the charges. By the way, most of these great people are business owners and management of local companies who got where they are because they had individual freedom, and a vision with OPTIMISM to succeed.

-- Posted by Greene County Patriot on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 7:15 AM

STILLHOPEFUL, I think part of what you may perceive as the "good old boys club" is actually a devoted group of people who help their community as often as they can. No doubt, they are getting tired from bearing the burden of the community though. What is most needed here is more volunteers to help in the community without wanting to know what is in it for them. The simple fact that your neighbor may benefit should be good enough of a reason to help. Time after time, though, it's the same core group of people involved... not because they're trying to take over, but because they're the only ones that will step up to the plate.

-- Posted by The Raven on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 7:44 AM

What is the golden rule?

And ask our self,are we contributing

or contaminating to are community?

-- Posted by JMORROW on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 11:27 AM

Raven- I see your point and agree totally. It does seem to appear to be the same small core group who 'get involved' and they are NOT who I refer to as the 'good old boys'. I think of that group as the 'seat fillers' who take up space, add nothing to the effort, and generally are added to things as a guarenteed 'yes man'. No boat rocking, follow the leader, ask no questions. Add their voice to resisting change.

I can understand fully how the core group of people who actually TRY to make positive change, are fully exhausted. If everyone carried a tiny bit, a few people wouldn't have to carry a huge load and more things would be more achievable.

Simmons- Are you unaware that Greene County has one of the highest child abuse/neglect rates in the entire state? One problem is the state/fed laws are weak in protecting them, the minimum standard of care before intevention can happen is wildly low. Just read through the paper on the sexual abuse cases reported. Recently you have the mother locking her infant in a car trunk 'for attention'. There are some MAJOR mental health needs in this county.

I'd suggest if you really want the details and want to ACT for kids, you get involved in the CASA program. A volunteer program to be a court appointed advocate to speak on the childs behalf. I suggest you'll need a strong stomach to read the case files. The state/fed objectives are ALWAYS to get kids back with their families even if the molestor/abuser is still there. I'd say the system is broken. Does that mean we should give up?

I'm not dissing the efforts some people ARE making, but as Raven noted, it's too few people trying to do too much. While the rest of us sit back and enjoy our personal bubble of paradise. Toys for Tots and such is a WONDERFUL thing..but that kind of involvement is needed all year long.

I'm all for enjoying life and looknig for the bright side. You don't have to give every spare second to a 'cause' but too many residents give NOTHING to any cause. What I don't understand is how more people could NOT see the intense problems and want to get involved and help solve them. Most of them are reported in the news, afterall. We can't all just shake our heads and say, 'thats a shame, someone should do somethingn', and then go back to our T.V. or personal hobbies.

As for starving animals, take a drive. Take a camera. Make note of how many animals are chained out with no food, no water, no adequate shelter. With 'winter fur' right now, you may not see the bones as prominently, but they are being starved and neglected. Horses particularly are suffering with the hay shortage right now, and they are not 'legally' required to have a shelter. They are considered livestock along with cows and such, who likewise are not required to have shelter.

I've brought these and more local problems to many peoples attention. I've gotten involved in trying to help in many, many, many cases of many different issues. I volunteer my time more the 60 hours a week to help make a difference. I guess I"m one of the people getting tired of pulling the load when more people could make it easier on everyone.

No one should even NEED someone else to take them by the hand and point out the extreme suffering and problems that NEED ATTENTION. The response I usually hear is, 'there are too many problems, and there is really not much we can do about most of it'. I say 'B.S'. If more people got involved, we could move mountains. If this county mobilized to demand changes on a state level, on many issues, it could happen. But many resident are far too involved in their own personal lives and frankly, appear to be too selfish to get involved and get their hands dirty, so to speak.

There are different issues that are different priorities for all of us. BUt we all need to be involved in volunteering IN SOMETHING to make a difference on a REGULAR basis, on the issues that matter most to us. Being an 'activist' is a good thing..that means you are ACTIVELY trying to make positive changes. This county has precious few of those, it seems. In fact, I hear people use that as a derogatory , dismissive word, "Oh, he/she is an activist' pay them no mind.

The few can't do it alone. The few will burn out and go away. Then there will be no one trying to make a difference. The icing on the cake of occassional efforts is nice, but the cake itself is rotting.

I'm a realist who is 'stillhopeful'. But you can't fix what you don't acknowledge is broken.

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 1:33 PM

The core group is getting tired, especially with all of the naysayers. Try to do something good, and people come out of the woodwork in the eleventh hour trying to kill it. Case in point: the youth center in Linton. I say get it built and revitalize a decaying structure with FREE money. People come out at the last minute to say, well, let's put it here or there instead. Mind you, they haven't toured any of their suggestions, got estimates to what their whim will cost, or seem to care that the community could really use a $1/2 million dollars in free grant money NOW, not later or not some day. I'm here to tell you that the grant money process is a zero sum game. Some community WILL get it, and if we don't apply, we won't get it. We all pay taxes into the State to create these grant opportunities, so let's fight -- or maybe at least apply -- for our fair share!

-- Posted by The Raven on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 2:00 PM

You are 150% right Raven!!!! I agree, I agree, I agree!! The biggest mobilization of ACTION you see usually is people 'coming out of the woodwork' to STOP something others have worked to try and make better! It's maddening. I read all kinds of things starting, think "GREAT! Awesome", things one wouldn't think could POSSIBLY be objected to......just to watch people appear to object, with no better suggestions.

I almost hate to say it, but as the famous quote of "the people get the government they deserve" (i.e. voting or not, demanding accountabliity or not, etc.) So does this county seem to 'get what it deserves' which consistently, thanks to the naysayers, seems to be NOTHING. I don't understand it, I truly don't. I've never seen a community fight harder to stop progress in my life.

The majority of people I've met working their hardest to improve the county, (and I'm not saying ALL...just those I've spoken to) are people who are not 'life long' residents of this area, who have moved here or have at least lived elsewhere long enough to see the POSSIBILITIES of making things better, and that it CAN be done.....but only if you find a way to reach those people who fear change so direly they'd rather live in a decaying society then take some chances and try new things.

SO that is the question. How do you reach and change the 'it can't be done' mindset??

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 2:52 PM

It baffles me that some people in one of the poorest communities in the State are thumbing their nose at a 1/2 million dollars because they don't think the youth will come out to it -- or there MIGHT BE problems out there.

Folks, there was drinking, making out, and fights in the old, old teen center where the Head Start is located now. People lived through it, while some may even reminisce about it.

Here's the big picture: $500,000 is going to be GIVEN to us to rehab a decaying building and creating a park-like setting. If we don't apply, the money will go somewhere else in the State. I'm sure the good people of some much more wealthy community in Indiana can brick something with the money… maybe some trash receptacles.

-- Posted by The Raven on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 3:09 PM

PS, Stillhopeful, it's very difficult to treat the disease called "apathy".

-- Posted by The Raven on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 3:13 PM

Well, yes, that is the problem. You can't MAKE people care about anything.

But if they were JUST apathetic, at least they probably wouldn't stand in the way of improving and progress. It's a strange hard headed stubborness, based on fear. As long as we don't TRY something new, we can't fail. What if, what if , what if..it doesn't work.

The refrain I've heard locally on numerous issues is literally, "this is the way we've done it for XX years and we aren't going to change it now".

Maybe the book "Who moved my Cheese?" (relating to fear of change) Should be required reading for every resident? At least every classroom?

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 3:24 PM

Excellent! "Who Move My Cheese?" would be the perfect book!

I would also argue that if you do the same things over and over again, that you don't necessarily get the same outcome. I think you actually get less and less and less. For example, observe some festivals that are the same thing every year, and you'll note the crowd size dwindles with every year...

-- Posted by The Raven on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 3:30 PM

I remember the light bulb moment years ago when I realized, "NO ONE CAN MOTIVATE ANYONE ELSE TO DO ANYTHING.....ALL you can do is REMIND them of what motivates them".

Of course, that doesn't help determine what would motivate people to want to TRY NEW THINGS, I realize.

Surely some other rural community has faced this 'mental block' as well and found a solution? Frankly, I've long felt that things will never get better until more 'outsiders' with vision move into our communities and then outweigh the naysayers. Which of course, takes us back to how do you get people to want to live here when it has so many 'issues' that need dealt with that can't be handled because of naysayers?

Ugh....I'm getting a headache.

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 3:31 PM

So how can we make a better effort to make sure all our elected officials and decision makers are the most progressive minded? How do we get out some of the long term 'seat warmers' who get voted in repeatedly on name recognition, but appear to sleep through meetings and wake up long enough to vote the way their buddy/party mate did, without even understanding their decisions?

I recall having a perfectly logical and motivated official agree with a suggested change I felt strongly about but backed down because too many 'good old boys' were complaining about changing anything.

How do we find officials who don't let the fear of not getting re-elected affect them?

We need people who will jump in with both feet to see progress made without fear of reprisal and maybe once it's done/ goals met, the 'naysayers' will see they had nothing to fear afterall.

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 3:38 PM

Better go to the courthouse and sign up to be on the ballot!

-- Posted by The Raven on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 3:42 PM

If I had played along all these years and not ever 'rocked the boat' I'd consider that. Don't forget I've PUT my name behind my opinions and efforts here for many years, publicly. And been branded for it by those same fearful people. If I could offer the county the golden goose the 'good old boys' would kill it before it could lay an egg! Cutting off one's nose to spite one's face seems to be pretty common around these parts. I've met people would won't take help from someone else because they are still holding a grudge about something that transpired between them in grade school! Seriously! They would not let someone help them who could because they were still p.o'd 40 years later. Timberly would have a better shot at getting elected! haha (Just kidding Timberly, that wasn't a dig! ;)

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 3:59 PM

I love greene county and think it is just fine. There is child abuse and crime everywhere you go: you sound a little nosey to me. Please take no offence....but you can not shove something down peoples throats. The animal rights thing is a "dead horse" and we should definitely spend that half a million on some sort of youth facility. Indoor atheltic facilities would be awesome for the kids.

I have read the stats on child abuse in greene county and I believe they are bogus. If you know of abuse report it, but spankings and eating twinkies dont count. Reporting abuse because you do not like your neighbor is bogus as well: kids are also just fine if their parents do not take them to church on sunday.

-- Posted by america on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 10:11 PM

Dont get me wrong though...more money in a few more pockets will definitely help things.

-- Posted by america on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 10:13 PM

I would suggest that there are some things around here not going in the direction I would have them moving in.

I say we have to big of a court house, to much goverment intervention, bloated social programs,and invasive county agents. We keep stray animals alive way to long and do not have near enough coal mining. Septic regulations are to strigent, IDEM is out of control, and the burning laws are ludicris. I really hated to see our landfill close but, I can not wait for the new interstate.

Property taxes are way to high because we are spending to much money trying to control the way people live because some few people "get involved" and try to screw things up for everyone else. This "making a difference" causes way more human suffering than actually existed in the first place.

Personal freedom and individual liberty are the keys to a successful community and prosperous society.

-- Posted by america on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 10:38 PM

Ah, America...are you the last one standing out there protecting your still from the 'revenuers'? That is the image I get from your posts.

Your opinion is the perfect 'in a nutshell' example of what the problem is with this county mindset.

When something is terribly wrong, and a living thing, a child, a wife, a person, an animal is suffering needlessly at the hands of an abuser, society is an OBLIGATION to help them. Much to the abusers chagrin.

With Personal Freedom comes Personal RESPONSIBILITY. If what you do on your property, then drains off and poisons MY property, (figuratively or literally)then where is MY personal freedom and liberty? We all have certain rights and when people get out of line with theirs and then start stepping on MY rights and freedoms....then if the government doesn't address it, who will? Shall we harken back to being a backwoods, Hatfields and McCoys system?

Can you see that some of the things your rail against (Septic regulations?!?!?!?) are in place to insure a healthy environment for all to live in???

It looks like in general, you like things the way they are, but you are fighting to remain living in the past. You can't stop time. The furture is coming whether or not you like it. It may entail giving up a little personal freedom to help the greater good, and that is what CIVILIZED societies do.

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 11:19 PM

"Simmons- Are you unaware that Greene County has one of the highest child abuse/neglect rates in the entire state?"

Sorry, I dozed off after work and got behind.

Yes, I'm unaware of that fact. I will research that today. I did read about the child in the trunk story. The mother is being prosecuted for that crime.

"I volunteer my time more the (sic) 60 hours a week to help make a difference." Do you have a job too? How do you do it?

-- Posted by simmons on Sat, Feb 2, 2008, at 2:02 AM

At Stillhopeful's suggestion, I began some research this morning, first by checking out CASA, "I'd suggest if you really want the details and want to ACT for kids, you get involved in the CASA program. A volunteer program to be a court appointed advocate to speak on the childs behalf."

After reading the information from the National Web Site, I visited the Greene County CASA site to find out how to volunteer and found:

"There are currently no opportunities for this organization."

Why wouldn't they be seeking volunteers?

-- Posted by simmons on Sat, Feb 2, 2008, at 7:32 AM

"Ah, America...are you the last one standing out there protecting your still from the 'revenuers'? That is the image I get from your posts."

Thank you so much...I can not wait to show all my friends. That is the greatest!

lol.. I only wish.

-- Posted by america on Sat, Feb 2, 2008, at 7:44 AM

Simmons, there was an ad for CASA in the newspaper a while back. My guess is they put the group of people who signs up through training all at once to achieve consistency and efficiency, but that's only my guess.

-- Posted by The Raven on Sat, Feb 2, 2008, at 3:03 PM

Perhaps, some of the GCDW news staff, who may have writer's block could explore some of this blog discussion for articles. For example: Maybe an article on CASA. An article on the septic issues in Eastern Greene. Maybe a look at how the book, "Who Moved My Cheese?" applies to Linton, and what we could learn from it. Perhaps asking council members, commissioners, and other elected officials "WHY?" after a vote... "Why did they vote that way?" Or, where is all of this property tax money going? How is it allocated and what persons and businesses benefit? Are they even from around here?

-- Posted by The Raven on Sat, Feb 2, 2008, at 3:14 PM

Good questions raven. All of those issues effect the lives and pocket books of a lot of good greene county citizens directly.

Less regulation is good for small business and easier on property taxes.

-- Posted by america on Sat, Feb 2, 2008, at 9:29 PM

Simmons, you might try WTWO archives (Or WTHI) I believe it was less then 2 years ago there was a television news story about the child abuse/neglect stats in Greene County being the highest in the state. Everyone in the county cringed, and basically said, 'yeah, it's true, but we'd rather not talk about it, we're working on it". Talk to a cop. Ask the Sheriff. And of course, what is reported and acted upon is only a percentage of those who are abused. Many remain silent...and then act out in so many of the socially unacceptable ways we are all then dealing with on the other end. Crime, Meth use, drinking, etc. and of course, repeating the cycle of abuse.

I volunteer full time with my main charity of choice, often overtime, and do as much as possible for others I'm passionate about. 365 days a year, including time on every holiday, nights, weekends, because if I don't do it, who will? No, I have not even taken a vacation in many years because so few others will step up to fill in the gap, even temporarily. I certainly couldn't enjoy laying on a beach, without someone else picking up the ball. I see quite a bit of the attitude of others I implore to help, 'it's only a drop in the bucket' so why bother? "If we can't do it all, why do anything?" "I can't do it all, so I do nothing". (Don't make me tell the "one starfish" story! I'll tell it, I swear! haha)

So yes, clearly, I am p.o.'d that more people don't fulfill their 'christian obligation' by helping more in their communities. They do their PAID jobs, golf or shop on weekends, make time for their 'me time'. So I feel justified in speaking about how bad the majority of this counties residents are about self sacrifing to help a 'cause'. Are people doing that? Yes. Are ENOUGH people doing it? NO! As Raven said, unless there is "something in it for them" they aren't interested.

The private citizens groups could do so much more if instead of just gathering for coffee, a meal and gossip every week, planning a one or two time yearly event, they took ACTION every week...or every 2 weeks! I've been to some board meetings for charities where the entire time was wasted looking at each others vacation pictures. WHERE ARE THE PEOPLE OF ACTION??

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Sat, Feb 2, 2008, at 10:44 PM

Hey Raven, great idea. Can we at least get a donation from the paper to our favorite charities as 'payment's for these 'ideas'!? Ha!

america, are you Snuffy SMith, by chance? haha Glad you saw the humor.

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Sat, Feb 2, 2008, at 10:47 PM

Golfing and shopping are community services. Those activities and other consumer type behavior stimulate the local economy to give jobs to those who would go out and work for a living.

I always say that if I have a bunch of trash to throw out at the end of the week that I have done my job to help as many people as I could have.

-- Posted by america on Sun, Feb 3, 2008, at 12:44 PM

In response to Stillhopeful's comments:

"I volunteer full time with my main charity of choice, often overtime, and do as much as possible for others I'm passionate about. 365 days a year, including time on every holiday, nights, weekends, because if I don't do it, who will?"

How do you do this? If you don't have a paying job, how do you pay your bills? Were you just born with a silver spoon in your mouth or do you have a sponsor or significant other out there earning a wage to allow you to do this?

"So yes, clearly, I am p.o.'d that more people don't fulfill their 'christian obligation' by helping more in their communities. They do their PAID jobs, golf or shop on weekends, make time for their 'me time'."

Who provided you with the qualifications to designate what my "christian obligation" or anyone else's should be?

-- Posted by simmons on Sun, Feb 3, 2008, at 4:06 PM

If you search this site, there are many CASA stories and last year there were a couple of stories about septic systems in Greene County.

-- Posted by playnice on Sun, Feb 3, 2008, at 5:28 PM

Uh-oh, I must have hit a raw nerve, Simmons? Why so hostile?

I'm no bibical scholar but I think if you use the Bible as a guideline, "helping the poor" is mentioned more then most other things for a 'christian to do'. You wouldn't designate that a 'christian obligation"? What ARE a christians obligations then? Certainly 'loving your neighbor as yourself" is pretty clear? Wouldn't that mean helping others as you would help yourself? Depending on the specific issues in one's community, I would think it would be pretty clear that if any living thing is suffering, it deserves a compassionate person's help.

I do not imply that everyone should be able to volunteer full time,but surely any 'religously focused' person should commit SOME TIME to helping society in some regard? Not because they 'have to', but because a true christian, in MY opinion, would be led to. Regardless of the method which allows me more time to give, the point is I give as much as I can to what I feel compelled in. I could sit back and wallow in self indulgence and laziness, practice hobbies or sports, or I could apply myself to a passion and a mission to help where I can. I chose the latter. I simply wish more people would and yes, I think people who claim to be 'religous', 'christian', whatever, would do more to serve God to help others, then not.

Society, in general, as a whole has convinced itself it 'deserves' to keep it's free time for itself and hope that someone else will come along and 'do something'. It's an easy trap to fall into.

I do think if anyone is going to claim to be a 'christian' they should be moved to do good works, regardless of whether or not good works are required to get your golden ticket into heaven.

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Sun, Feb 3, 2008, at 7:24 PM

Sorry if you got the wrong impression, I'm not hostile at all. I just asked some simple questions, which you failed to answer, because you stated that you were "p.o.'d" and because you began lecturing us on our "christian obligations".

Believe me, I don't have any "raw nerves". What you do with your "free time", which must be significantly more than my "free time", is your decision. What I do with my "free time", surely must be mine.

-- Posted by simmons on Mon, Feb 4, 2008, at 3:13 AM

First off, let me just state that im not worried about posting my name to this response, my log , "tdavid" is for travis david, im a sports writer for this lovely paper, talk to anyone who knows me and youll quickly learn that im one of the most opinionated persons that you will meet, i dont have a prob with posting my name, i welcome anyone who wants to comment, thats just who I am.

anyways.......I just read this blog and started reading some of the comments and the first few were on subject matter, then I shifted towards the bottom, and somehow we went from being anonymous about our comments all the way down to talking about "christian obligations"????? hmmm.....cant wait to read your next blog tim!!!!! keep up the good work!!!!

-- Posted by TDavid on Mon, Feb 4, 2008, at 3:51 PM

Without question! It is our own decision. I simply wish more people would pitch in and do their best to improve the problems in our area, not just pretend they don't exist, because they may not affect one individually. I see an awful lot of churchs and church groups so it would lead one to believe there is a 'christian agenda' in the area and that reaching out to the community would be a priority. I could be wrong.

Sorry, did you want my financial records or what? Suffice to say I am highly blessed in my life, to be able to apply myself full time and beyond on a volunteer basis. Does it matter HOW that is? I have not implied that anyone else should be able to volunteer full time, just SOME time. I guess you can make two assumptions and chose between them. Maybe I worked hard for years, made a lot of money and retired. Or maybe I live so frugally that I can make it without having to work full time jobs and self sacrafice in other areas so I may have the volutneer time to give where it is needed. In either event, the point being, we should all give what we are able....but too many give NOTHING. All the Christian rhethoric just makes me think each 'christian' should be doing more. Some are, no doubt, but not enough, in my opinion.

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Mon, Feb 4, 2008, at 3:53 PM

Yes, it has indeed morphed off topic but it can be traced back to the topic. I too wish Timberly would crank out a few more! SOON!!!

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Mon, Feb 4, 2008, at 3:55 PM

I dont think anyone is implying that they want to know about your financial situation. but I just think that some people that do have a paying job that doenst have the time to volunteer on a full-time basis does not want to be criticized for that or have their christian values questioned. i myself do some volunteer work, wether it be as a volunteer coach or at my church or whatever I HAVE TIME FOR, but there are people that work a full schedule then have a family to go home to, does that make them unchristian for putting their family first or selfish??? NO!

I think that it is great that you do everything that you can and want others to pitch in as well, and I believe that most do the best that they can, but dont want to be criticized when they cant do more!!!

-- Posted by TDavid on Mon, Feb 4, 2008, at 4:24 PM

Well, you missed my point entirely TDavid. We went from the repercussions of expressing one's opinion publicly in the area, (with your face and name behind it). We got off on this tangent when people were commenting that this county is 'paradise' and people are helpful and help each other out.

I've said repeatedly, I don't expect anyone to give as much time as I do, but if EVERYONE did just a smidge, even an hour a week working to improve our community in some volunteer way, we would see massive results without a core group of people burning themselves out, while other citizens do nothing to help improve anything.

Perhaps that is the bigger question, if anyone could ever do a thorough survey. What percentage of this county's residents volunteer their time in some way to improve life in this county? Sorry, but I don't think it's too many. My guess would be maybe...20 or 30% tops.

Talking in circles like this is usually what derails most initial efforts to achieve anything positive, anyway, clearly, because one can't discuss improving this community and WHAT/WHY it needs improved, without offending many of it's residents.

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Mon, Feb 4, 2008, at 10:04 PM

Perhaps some colorful drinks with those little umbrellas would help this crowd…

-- Posted by The Raven on Mon, Feb 4, 2008, at 11:04 PM

I do think there is much to be said for social lubricant! Can we get freebies at the county meetings? Make mine a Margarita!

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Mon, Feb 4, 2008, at 11:09 PM

Somewhat back to the topic at hand....

I post here anonymously, and I can clearly see Timberly's point.

I wrote a letter to the editor of this fine paper years back, which was not anonymous. After that I received a less than pleasant anonymous note in the mail, as well as a non-anonymous rebuttal letter to the editor which had less truth in it than either emotion or errors. I was rather surprised that this letter to the editor was from someone I knew, who apparantly decided he would rather tear down my comments, regarless of whether they were correct or not, than pick up the phone and talk to me about it, which is what I ended up doing.

I have to agree with STILLHOPEFUL about the prevalent attitudes in this area. I read a lot of comments from folks about how great this area is, but most of them are from people who have limited experience any where else. I grew up somewhere else, and if not for family and economic considerations, I wouldn't still be here.

On a postive note however, change for groups or societies is not an easy thing. Even at the individual level it can be hard, even without considering multiple perspectives. I really don't think this area is unique in that regard. What does set some areas ahead of others though is leadership that facilitates change, and a population willing to vote for that leadership.

-- Posted by Question? on Fri, Feb 8, 2008, at 3:41 PM

I think the 'leadership' here is reflecting the majority of the voters who want NO CHANGE, no matter what.

How do we change the attitudes of the people who fear change and progression so much, in order to get them to support a 'change candidate', for a change! ?

-- Posted by STILLHOPEFUL on Fri, Feb 8, 2008, at 9:54 PM

Did you ever consider we do not want to change because we are content.

Change for the sake of change is instability.

Change for the advancement of individual freedom is what our forefathers wanted and our country needs today.

Candidates seem to bark out that they are for change but have surprisingly little to say on what that change will be. No thank you, I prefer order and law over instability and chaos.

-- Posted by Greene County Patriot on Sun, Feb 10, 2008, at 8:28 PM

We need a lot of change because I don't think people see how really close to the line of total collapse we are all playing here. If it weren't for the Crane base with the people they employ, the contractors they pay, and the money they bring in to the area, there would be nothing but tumbleweeds blowing through southern Indiana.

-- Posted by The Raven on Mon, Feb 11, 2008, at 12:27 PM


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